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August 13th, 2027

Darian and Bear
We're officially tying the knot! 🥰

We're officially tying the knot! 🥰

At a Glance

Engaged:
August 13th, 2025
Colors:
Teal & Pink!
Venue Buffet:
Pasta bar!
Dress Code:
Fancy Dancey!
Honeymoon:
To Be Determined!

Save the Date!

Welcome to our official wedding hub! Darian and I are incredibly excited to announce that we're getting married on Friday, August 13th, 2027. This date isn't a coincidence - it's the exact anniversary of when we made our relationship official and got engaged, bringing our timeline full circle in the best way possible.

For those who know us from the server, Denizen, and/or any of our communities: yes, the owners of B are officially making it permanent! We've spent years building and fostering an amazing online community, but this is by far our favorite celebration yet.

We're currently in the thick of planning to make this day a perfect reflection of who we are. We want this celebration to be unforgettable, blending our favorite colors and ensuring the vibe is as welcoming and fun as our daily lives. We created this page to keep our friends, family, and players in the loop as we finalize the details.

Our Story: More about us

Bear and Darian

Our lives revolve around designing intricate props/models, managing server networks, and making every second together count. But our story didn't start in a workshop or a server room. We met on Tinder, sparking conversations that we simply didn't want to end. Within months, it felt like we had known each other for years - and we still catch ourselves staying up way too late just talking until one of us passes out lol.

We quickly realized we had an insane amount in common. It wasn't just passing interests, but a deep, overlapping passion for the same nerdy niches, games, and aesthetics. This instant connection made for infinitely long watch-lists and adventure plans that we're still happily working through today!

As we grew closer, we realized our differences perfectly complement each other. I bring the technical software development, while Darian brings an incredible eye for artistry and physical design. Beyond our projects, we've navigated real-life challenges together. When a severe motorcycle accident left me grounded in late 2025, Darian stepped up as my absolute rock supporting me at my worst.

From realizing on our early dates that she could put away a hamburger better than I could, to building our home we call "The Bearian Estates" on our Minecraft world, and even navigating life's rough unexpected hurdles side-by-side, every moment has solidified that we're meant to be the perfect team. We couldn't be more thrilled to officially start this next chapter.

More about Darian

Majora's Mask Prop Darian is the artistic heart of our home. By day, she's at Wulfgar Props, getting hands-on with the gritty, messy work of painting and sanding high-end props. Her absolute favorite piece to paint and finish is the funky, the colorful rainbow-colored Majora's Mask from Zelda!


Despite the sawdust and paint, she makes it a point to dress elegantly every single day. Her love for aesthetics isn't just professional; she's a former florist with a lifelong love for flowers, Daffodils being a particular favorite.


While she's the queen of sleeping in (usually until a bowl of cereal, the true key to her heart, arrives), she is incredibly passionate about everything she loves and does. She has been our rock throughout the long recovery from Bear's motorcycle accident. When she's relaxing, she's likely watching speedruns, something crafty or creative, or playing games.

More about Bear

Behr's Minecraft Character I handle the technical side of our projects, with my world rooted deeply in the logic of DenizenScript and JavaScript. I'm often the one struggling to sleep (especially as long as she can), which worked out perfectly for my routine of bringing Darian breakfast and coffee in bed each morning.


When I'm not writing scripts, I spend my time building LEGO Speed Champions or working on the B network. I also have a serious weakness for vanilla ice cream loaded with peanut butter and candies. In both my code and daily life, I value precision, smooth responsive transitions, and the little details that tie everything together.

What We Build Together

Our partnership is defined by the things we create and the worlds we explore together.

The Gaming Connection: Our first shared adventure was in Minecraft, where we built "The Bearian Estates," a private town that serves as our digital home. We also share a love for Age of Empires II, City of Heroes, and various simulator games.

The Collection: Our shelves are a mix of our favorite things. You'll find plenty of Nintendo LEGO sets, my City buildings, and a dedicated Pokémon corner where Darian's favorite, Ampharos (and her prized full-art holo Falinks), sits near my favorites, Alakazam and Bidoof.

Whovians at Heart: We're both big Doctor Who fans. Darian's favorites lean toward the chilling, the Weeping Angels and the Vashta Narada, with a soft spot for Donna Noble as a companion.

The Little Things: Life for us is found in the quirks, like our frequent cucumber salad nights, or the way Darian can put away a hamburger better than I can (a realization that made me laugh since our very first dates).

Fun Facts About Us

Feature
Darian
Bear
Favorite Pokémon
Ampharos
Bidoof (formerly Alakazam)
Comfort Food
Hamburgers
Lasagna
Favorite Project
Majora's Mask
The Bearian Estates
Morning Routine
Cereal & Sleeping in
Coffee-making & Early rising
Disney Pick
Tangled
Superhero / Magical films
LEGO Focus
Nintendo & Creative sets
Speed Champions & City

Our Furry Family

We couldn't set up a page celebrating our growing family without mentioning our beloved cats! Tofu, Dijon Mustard, and Mulder are a huge part of our lives at home. Whether they are helping Darian inspect her latest prop designs, sitting directly on my keyboard while I'm trying to write Denizen scripts, or just causing their usual brand of adorable chaos around the house, these three bring so much life and laughter to our daily routines. They are our little furry world, and we absolutely love them to pieces.

Our cat photo wall
Dijon Mustard

Dijon Mustard was adopted by myself(Bear) from Misty Eyes Animal Center in Avon. He struggles to keep a single brain cell active at any given moment, but he makes up for it by being a massive food and attention bully - if a name is called, he assumes it's his! Luckily, this works every time it actually was. He's very playful and frequently brings toy mice into the bed, and he only tolerates car rides if there is a pup cup involved. When we're trying to lay down to sleep, he loves to stomp on us. Casually walking all over us and making sure to put his entire body weight into every single paw.

Mulder was rescued in Battleground by Darian along with his brother, Scully (named after the classic TV duo!). Scully unfortunately ran away, but Mulder has settled in perfectly. He's extremely chill and just likes to lay around and sleep all day. He couldn't care less about treats or catnip, reserving his appetite entirely for string. He's a lovable dummy with an insatiable hunger for string, and he certainly doesn't let the inevitable hairballs stop him from going back for second helpings. Oh, and he absolutely hates car rides.

Mulder
Tofu

Tofu joined us after we both caught her and her stray momma, Barbeque (who still visits us two years later!). Tofu is extremely timid and strongly dislikes being approached, though she does enjoy pets on her own terms sometimes. Just like Dijon, she's very playful and loves bringing her toys into the bed. When we aren't watching though, she's vicious with her toys, tearing them up ten times faster than her brothers!

💍 Registry & Venue Details

We're still in the process of finalizing the venue and building out our official registry, but here is what we're planning so far!

Theme & Colors

We're leaning heavily into a beautiful palette of Teal and pink accents. Expect an aesthetic that feels very "us."

The Registry

Our official registry isn't quite open yet. Check back here closer to the big day for links to our registry, RSVP forms, and specific venue information!

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